Oh dear - there's quite a bit of misinformation in this thread so far, IMHO

With regard to V2L and the earthing points - please see these postings I've made previously about that - important - matter:-
My thoughts about earthing in MG4 Discharge Cable thread
My thoughts about powering a boiler in MG4 powering other stuff (Vehicle to Load aka ‘V2L’) thread
And some feedback on other comments...
From a consumer in the UK, it might be similar, the standard is TN-C-S, or at least thats what Ive just been given from my DNO
TN-C-S is the most common earthing arrangement in the UK, unless you are rural with overhead cables, in which case TT is more likely.
which begs the question should I add the old one into the mix, given that the MG4 doesn't have one
See my other posting (link above). The issue with TN-C-S is that under failure conditions the DNO supplied earth may not be present.
Can I then take V2L power from car and just plug that into a mains socket to charge the house batteries?
Absolutely NO. That will destroy your MG's inverter immediately.
@Coulomb has already said that, I know, but it is so important I wanted to state it again. I note
@johnb80 said you can, but I suspect he misunderstood your point - or maybe
@Coulomb and I have both misunderstood what you meant, but for the sake of anyone else reading this thread.... NEVER connect your V2L to your house mains.
Can they also be set to take v2l power back.
No - they are not bi-directional chargers.
If you mean can you use the Ginlong inverter (I'm not familiar with them)
I suspect you have

Ginlong Solis is the full name of Solis inverters - the 3rd largest hybrid inverter manufacturer in the the world.
connecting its AC-in port to the V2L output, and the house battery to the battery port, and the voltages are compatible (e.g. 48 V inverter and 48 V battery), and everything is configured correctly, then yes.
I'd say no to doing that. The Solis AC couple ESS inverter (such as the RAI model or similar) is a grid-tied, not off grid inverter. You should never connect the V2L or any generator in put to its AC-grid port.
Using a BMS to regularly cut power is not a job they are designed for. They are designed to do it as a safety backstop when charge controllers / inverters have not done their job, or some other fault occurs. The BMS should be a last line of defence, not the first.

100% agree. The BMS acts as a monitor device that can balance cells and will act as a safety valve if everything else goes wrong.
That really isnt the case. A single pack can be out of balance by a small amount and would not result in the inverter doing anything about it, the inverter usually only sees the overall terminal voltage of the whole pack. If 3 of the cells were 50mV down on the others the inverter could well exceed individual cell voltages.
Not in a closed loop system that
@wattmatters mentioned. For the situation of cell over-voltage, what should happen on a correctly configured system is:-
a) on reaching the max desired cell voltage (typically set to between 3500mV and 3600mV (for LFP's)) the BMS should signal a 100% SOC to the inverter, which in turn should stop its charge process.
b) in the case of a catastrophic failure and the inverter continues to charge the battery pack(s), the BMS will then activate its safety mechanisms should the a cell reach the cell overvoltage protection value - typically this will be 3650mV. At that point the BMS will raise and alarm to the inverter and cut off the battery charge circuit.
I'm struggling here. Where would I plug it in?
The charger is something that would need to be wired in, with suitable fuses (as
@wattmatters detailed above). And taking into consideration maximum charge current that your battery supports, as I touched on in post #8 in this thread.
Please share with us how it's asking for trouble?
Using a BMS to
regularly cut power is not a job they are designed for.
This is EXACTLY what theyre designed for
I'm with
@wattmatters. Sure a BMS is designed to be able to cut off charge or discharge current when certain parameters are exceeded (such as cell over/under voltage, over/under current, over/under temperature). But doing that
repeatedly for a job they are not designed for will reduce the lifespan of the charge / discharge MOSFET's. AFAICR this is due to heat build up within the semiconductor when shut down during large current draw. And MOSFET's have an unfortunate tendency to fail in a closed, rather open circuit mode, IME.