I think the realisation that can be slow is that you probably don't need to care how long it takes your car to charge from (almost) zero to 100% on a public super-fast charger "while you wait" because you almost certainly aren't going to be wanting to do that. That's ICE car thinking.
I did my first foray away from home charging yesterday, and what surprised me was how fast the Gridserve charger on the motorway got my car up from about 60% to 80%. I'd only had time to find the food hall, order lunch and sit down. I still had to eat the food and find the loos. I think I was at 92% before I was ready to leave, and that was way more than I really needed to get to my destination (which has type 2 chargers available).
I'm realising that if you pick your stopping place right, then you can take advantage of damn fast charging from a relatively low state of charge, just put in enough to get you to where you're going with enough to spare to prevent any anxiety, and get going in little more time than it would have taken to fill the tank of an ICE car and go to the loo. Yes you will also have to charge when you get to your destination, but that's a separate plan and something that should be happening while you're doing other stuff or sleeping, not hanging around waiting for a green line to creep eastwards.
We're all so used to filling our cars up then forgetting about it for the next 400 miles, and I think it takes time to adjust to a new way of driving. If we don't normally drive further than the range of our cars in a day, and we have home charging, we can forget about it forever. We only have to think about it on the relatively rare occasions when we do travel further, and then a relatively short stop just to give us enough to get to our destination will often be all that's needed.
I just discovered that I have to go to a funeral next week, a trip that involves a ferry crossing. The round trip is possibly only 160 miles which should be easily possible without charging at all, in an SR in summer. However since I'll be staying away overnight, I've ascertained that the petrol station just down the road from my hotel has an Instavolt 50 KW charger on the forecourt. Five or ten minutes on that will be enough to give me enough leeway that I can do whatever I want on the actual day of the funeral without worrying about anything. If I'd been in my ICE car there's a sporting chance I'd have had to take it there anyway.
I'm sure as my experience with this game grows I'll be able to calculate how much extra charge I'll need for any given journey so as to get me to my destination with enough to spare to avoid anxiety, and the best place(s) to get that with minimal stopping time, and do this without really having to think about it. And in between journeys like that, which is most of the time, I don't have to think about it at all.