I changed the OEM tyres at 6k to Crossclimate 2's which I've again recently changed at 38k miles to Vector Gen 3's (Costco had an amazing deal) which I've done around 2k on now so have a little bit of experience of them & did quite a bit of research too like yourself, I had it down to these 2, as everything else seems compromised in some area.
The Crossclimate's I'd say have better feel (perhaps it's with the Vectors being new & larger tread blocks) but initially I'd say the Michelin's are the more driver focused tyre in the dry, as you've probably seen the Goodyear's beat them in the rain, they definitely seem better when wet which was my only real complaint about the Crossclimate's. Michelin's probably ever soo slightly better in snow but they're both rated highly there but hopefully I won't find out this winter!, I was astounded how good the Michelin's were in the white stuff last winter up here in the North.
Re wear, the Michelin's I was very impressed with getting 32k (tyre fitter asked why I'm changing them as they still had around 2/3mm but I do school transport and wasn't using the car for 6 weeks so had plenty of downtime) they wore very even too. From all the tests I've looked at the Goodyear's are even better so if that's important, I'm not expecting to have to change these until nearer 80k or past now.
Tbh there both really good tyres imo, both much much better, even in the dry than the OEM Continental's but given the choice I'd probably go for the Michelin's next time, just for the feedback, I've not noticed and real efficiency drop in either although it has been warmer since having the Goodyear's fitted but I believe the Crossclimate's have a slightly lower rolling resistance too, hope this helps. ?