I should have added that my meter tails were uprated to 25mmSq when my smart meter was installed (I also had an isolator fitted at the same time).
The problem with a lower rated fuse (60A) is that you might easily find a transient condition where the rating was exceeded. As I had mentioned previously, think of car charger plus electric shower plus hob/oven simultaneously in use. That's not beyond the realms of possibility and the reason why some of the smarter chargers have fuse protection enabling them to back off on the charge rate when other domestic load is too high built into their functionality.
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@Joe this is absolutely spot on information.
We have a 11.00 kw electric shower, but it is only there as a "Back Up" unit, because our main and regular shower unit is a power shower feed by our domestic hot water cylinder.
The internal pump is feed from switched spur carrying a small 5 Amp rated fuse.
We have a gas boiler and a duel fuel range cooker.
An automatic washing machine & drier ( No dish washer ).
Therefore, our biggest electrical demand is the EV wall box and nearly all of our charging is conducted over night on cheaper off rate rates, so then the demand on the supply is equally low.
Our EV installer just happened to be the owner of his own electrical business, with a vast knowledge and experience of both domestic and commercial electrical installations.
EV's is his new passion and he owned a Tesla model S at the time.
He did a personal appraisal of our property and our electrical usage case, and he offered some good sound advice regarding the load carrying capacity of our DNO fuse capacity.
He accompanied his EV installer and supervised the whole install and testing before leaving.
Of course, not everybody is lucky enough to get this type of personal help and advice.
Everybody's electrical system is going to totally different, no two cases are ever going to be the same.
What is okay for one property, is NOT going to be okay for the next !.
I am comfortable in the knowledge that I am not over stretching the load carrying capability of the 60 Amp DNO fuse in our usage case.