Yes, the final 'polishing' of the gear teeth is really done in actual use and produces a very fine metallic silt. It will stop eventually but I'm less than convinced it's a good idea to leave these particles suspended in the oil for the car's life.
I must remember to point an infra red thermometer at the gearbox casing after a long run, just to see how hot it gets.
It is totally reliant on the oil for cooling as well as lubrication, a lot of work for a few hundred mil of oil to cope with, my old leaf has 1.4 litres if I recall correctly.
The highest temp I've measured in the 4's motor/ inverter coolant reservoir so far is 42 degrees , that doesn't really help the gearbox though.